Black Girl’s Guide to Winning at Love and Life

Black Girl's Guide to Winning at Love & Life 
Dating, Relationship & Self-Help for Single Sisters 
A Survival Guide

If Love is War, May the Best Woman Win! 

If love is the prize, then Stephanie Small, the author of the controversial self-help guide for single sisters entitled Black Girl's Guide to Winning at Love & Life, shows black women how to win at everything.

There's a battle brewing for love, the good life and the hearts of black men, who will win? The answers are broken down between the pages of this how-to guide in 5 basic steps. Without apology or pulling punches, Small reveals to single sisters everywhere why the other girl is making sweet love to the brothers who should be their boyfriends, while 47% of black women will never wear a wedding dress. 

Using what she calls the FIVE B'S for Becoming a Better Black Woman, Small rescues single sisters from dating doom by outlining the emotional and psychological challenges that they must overcome to be at their best. Like the strictest drill sergeant or tough love sister-friend, the author coaches black women on how to: 

  • Overcome angry black woman BIAS 
  • Fight BRAINWASHING indoctrination 
  • Maximize BEAUTY as a strategic asset 
  • Release and unload emotional BAGGAGE 
  • Be BETTER mentally, physically and emotionally 

Best described as a relationship boot-camp guide for getting yours, the book is equal parts as funny as it is infuriating. Black Girl's Guide to Winning at Love & Life successfully gives black women the one thing they need: strategies for winning at love, life and everything in-between. 

s small bg3d-hrd2Black Girl's Guide to Winning at Love & Life (ISBN 978-0-9858189-4-4) by Stephanie Small available from Barnes & Noble, Amazon and Kobo or directly from the publisher at 2S Publishing (, P.O Box 301095, Brooklyn, NY 11230  – Publ. Date: October 14, 2013 

About the Author 

S Small- BioPic.psWhile pursuing a degree in psychology, Stephanie Small discovered a love for writing and an affinity for giving good advice. A former social work counselor, she is currently a certified trainer and college lecturer with a Bachelor's degree in Psychology and a Master's degree in 
the Arts. A woman of the world (Canadian-bred with West Indian roots, now living and loving in New York); Stephanie works as a Professional-Development Coach and Training Strategist specializing in Adult Education. Her life's goal is to educate individuals on how to overcome their fears and discover their own personal power.Known as the Super Sistahin the Blogosphere, Stephanie writes a successful blog @  

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